Counseling should always be the first step when looking for support. So please, find yourself a very good therapist that understands infidelity. Many marriage counselors don’t always have the best approach, so do your research on who you are seeing. For Jesse and me, it was better for us to speak weekly with a couple who had walked this out before and came out of it with a better and stronger marriage. There are many out there, so don’t be afraid to ask. They tend to have the best advice and more of an idea of what you are really walking through.
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